Indian Values:What do they say?
Hi Friends. I am writing this blog instantly. As I am thinking, I am writing. A few days ago I read a comment posted by a fellow blogger. It denied any possibility of developing a carnal affection between two respectable INDIANS before marriage. Is that so?
I don’t have any intensions of raising a controversial debacle of words here at all. Though I am putting up my point of view and all the readers have complete right to give their own views as well. And I really strongly feel that your choice of love or showing sexual preference can never take away your nationality, religion or dharam. I totally disagree with the statement that a she-person who values INDIANESS and INDIAN TRADITIONS will never involve herself in love, that is physical, before marriage. More so I find statements such as “…And if she does, she is not a Indian rather than a sham American value follower” are more ironical and sadistic for me. How can a few set of people decide to make plan for all the other people around them. Forgotten Indian Preamble:
“WE, THE PEOPLE OF INDIA, having solemnly resolved to constitute India into a _1[SOVEREIGN SOCIALIST SECULAR DEMOCRATIC REPUBLIC] and to secure to all its citizens:
JUSTICE, social, economic and political;
LIBERTY of thought, expression, belief, faith and worship;
EQUALITY of status and of opportunity;
and to promote among them all
FRATERNITY assuring the dignity of the individual and the _2[unity and integrity of the Nation];
IN OUR CONSTITUENT ASSEMBLY this twenty-sixth day of November, 1949, do HEREBY ADOPT, ENACT AND GIVE TO OURSELVES THIS CONSTITUTION.”
These things apply to ALL the aspects.
I have a few points. I would like you to look at them before you reach to any conclusion.
1) Do you think Indian women are intelligent?
2) Don’t you think she is assertive and knows her mind?
3) Isn’t she beautiful?
I know most of you (if fan of Indian beauty) would have answered well for her bastions. Now a few of men (& women) here would have doubted a woman’s mental maturity for taking any such intense decision prior marriage. And these folks are surely mature enough to look at other factors before taking a decision & I really praise there grown up attitudes.
Now if you think it is important to look at all points before taking any decision, why cant you see at the necessity of love. It’s love for love sake. Here I am not supporting the concept of pre-marriage sex nor am I blaming it a culprit for killing INDIANESS in a woman. Please men and women, tell me one thing how a set of rules can be applied to all the situations universally? How can you define what is Indian and what is not. May be the man and woman who are leading a LIVE-IN RELATION are keeping clearer income tax files than you are actually keeping. In this case, who is more Indian? Huh?? SO please before you decide to mould others opinion or say things about the others, look at you beforehand.
Have you forgotten last time you had accessed porn or Kinky stuff? How could you raise fingers against a woman who actually has courage and honesty to stand by her decisions? …As if, you would deny Catherine Zeta Zones, Sandra Bullock or for that Mallika Sherwat (or anyone who tempts you, but is not in your reach) asks you? Temptation is important to keep a real check on you. So please people hold on. It’s easy to pass comments or show your rigidity but this kind of behavior is not recommended to humans.
Rest you all are mature and smart.
I don’t have any intensions of raising a controversial debacle of words here at all. Though I am putting up my point of view and all the readers have complete right to give their own views as well. And I really strongly feel that your choice of love or showing sexual preference can never take away your nationality, religion or dharam. I totally disagree with the statement that a she-person who values INDIANESS and INDIAN TRADITIONS will never involve herself in love, that is physical, before marriage. More so I find statements such as “…And if she does, she is not a Indian rather than a sham American value follower” are more ironical and sadistic for me. How can a few set of people decide to make plan for all the other people around them. Forgotten Indian Preamble:
“WE, THE PEOPLE OF INDIA, having solemnly resolved to constitute India into a _1[SOVEREIGN SOCIALIST SECULAR DEMOCRATIC REPUBLIC] and to secure to all its citizens:
JUSTICE, social, economic and political;
LIBERTY of thought, expression, belief, faith and worship;
EQUALITY of status and of opportunity;
and to promote among them all
FRATERNITY assuring the dignity of the individual and the _2[unity and integrity of the Nation];
IN OUR CONSTITUENT ASSEMBLY this twenty-sixth day of November, 1949, do HEREBY ADOPT, ENACT AND GIVE TO OURSELVES THIS CONSTITUTION.”
These things apply to ALL the aspects.
I have a few points. I would like you to look at them before you reach to any conclusion.
1) Do you think Indian women are intelligent?
2) Don’t you think she is assertive and knows her mind?
3) Isn’t she beautiful?
I know most of you (if fan of Indian beauty) would have answered well for her bastions. Now a few of men (& women) here would have doubted a woman’s mental maturity for taking any such intense decision prior marriage. And these folks are surely mature enough to look at other factors before taking a decision & I really praise there grown up attitudes.
Now if you think it is important to look at all points before taking any decision, why cant you see at the necessity of love. It’s love for love sake. Here I am not supporting the concept of pre-marriage sex nor am I blaming it a culprit for killing INDIANESS in a woman. Please men and women, tell me one thing how a set of rules can be applied to all the situations universally? How can you define what is Indian and what is not. May be the man and woman who are leading a LIVE-IN RELATION are keeping clearer income tax files than you are actually keeping. In this case, who is more Indian? Huh?? SO please before you decide to mould others opinion or say things about the others, look at you beforehand.
Have you forgotten last time you had accessed porn or Kinky stuff? How could you raise fingers against a woman who actually has courage and honesty to stand by her decisions? …As if, you would deny Catherine Zeta Zones, Sandra Bullock or for that Mallika Sherwat (or anyone who tempts you, but is not in your reach) asks you? Temptation is important to keep a real check on you. So please people hold on. It’s easy to pass comments or show your rigidity but this kind of behavior is not recommended to humans.
Rest you all are mature and smart.
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